The change parwarish makes
Change is inevitable, but it’s not always loud. Sometimes, it’s quiet—hidden in the corners of a family dinner, in the silence that follows a long argument, or in the warmth of a comforting hug after a tough day. Parwarish, our upbringing, shapes us in ways we don’t even notice until one day we look back and see how much we’ve transformed. From school life to college, loneliness to laughter, our parwarish is the foundation of everything we are becoming.
Growing up in a home full of expectations can often feel like living in a storm. There are moments when you feel both heard and unheard at the same time, where you crave acceptance but are constantly held to a standard. These silent pressures shape the way we see the world—how we approach school, friendships, and even our own happiness. But it's in those moments of chaos that change begins, silently shaping our future selves.
Yet, even in the most difficult of circumstances, change finds its way through. It’s the quiet moments of self-discovery that truly matter—the realization that you’re stronger than you thought, that you’ve learned to navigate life’s chaos with a calm that’s both surprising and comforting. We may not always notice it, but every experience, every conversation, every argument, and every laugh shapes us into who we are meant to be.
As we move from the safety of home to the unknowns of school and later college, we carry pieces of our parwarish with us. The voices of our parents, the lessons they taught us, and the traditions they upheld all shape the way we approach new challenges. It's a balance of holding onto what we know while embracing the change that comes with stepping into a new world.
Change, in all its forms, is a journey we all take. It's messy, painful, and sometimes even joyful. But at the end of it all, we realize that our parwarish is not just about the things we were taught—it’s the foundation of everything we will become. And in this ongoing journey, we learn that change doesn’t make us less of who we were—it makes us more.
How has your parwarish shaped the person you are today?
